I recently had lunch with a friend whom I admire very much, along with her daughter and my daughter. We have known each other for nearly 10 years, and the girls have grown from young high school girls to full grown women with all the responsibilities and joys and heartache that entails. Ms. B [...]

By |2022-07-08T11:53:31-04:00July 8th, 2022|ABMe Story Updates|Comments Off on Boundaries

Growing + Adapting = Change

In my garden there is a very interesting plant, the Hibiscus Mutabilis. The common name in the south is Cotton Rose or Confederate Rose, but it’s a plant that originated in Asia and is on every continent but Antarctica.  Each year for the past three years I cut off all the branches when the [...]

By |2021-12-06T20:39:56-05:00December 5th, 2021|ABMe Story Updates|Comments Off on Growing + Adapting = Change

Rules Have Elasticity

My kids know that I was pretty strict when they were young, but they occasionally witnessed me breaking a rule. Something that seemed silly, like no pictures allowed in a museum exhibit, or going in the wrong door. Or speeding... and then getting a ticket. But in all of these cases, there was no [...]

By |2021-10-31T21:35:32-04:00October 31st, 2021|ABMe Story Updates|Comments Off on Rules Have Elasticity

Who’s Plan Is It?

Decisions, decisions… what do I wear today, what do I want for breakfast, what do I HAVE to do today, what do I WANT to do today? We are faced with hundreds of decisions every single day: some decisions are easy, some take a little time, others can be overwhelming. As adults, we have [...]

By |2021-10-31T21:14:31-04:00September 7th, 2021|ABMe Story Updates|Comments Off on Who’s Plan Is It?

I think. I can.

A couple years ago a friend gave me a journal and a pen for my birthday with a challenge to write three things every day for a year for which I was thankful, without repeating anything. She said she had done that and was completely amazed at how her outlook on her life changed.  [...]

By |2021-08-08T09:30:43-04:00August 8th, 2021|ABMe Story Updates|Comments Off on I think. I can.

Faith, Grit, and Time

I had a conversation today with a couple of my young friends and their mom. I asked them what grit was. Two 14 year olds and a 10 year old said they had no idea. The youngest picked up her phone and asked it “What’s a grit?” The phone showed her a box of [...]

By |2021-07-04T05:56:24-04:00July 4th, 2021|ABMe Story Updates|Comments Off on Faith, Grit, and Time

Grapple with Filters

I recently had an interesting conversation with a couple of my female friends who are successful professionals that work in male dominated fields within the military/government service. They are civilians, exceedingly intelligent and thoughtful, and have worked very hard to get to the level that they have. I asked each of them what they [...]

By |2021-06-02T00:34:15-04:00June 2nd, 2021|ABMe Story Updates|Comments Off on Grapple with Filters


I received my second Covid vaccine yesterday, and I am a little out of sorts today. I’m not complaining really, my arm is sore and I’m feeling very tired. I fully recognize the gift of science and the ability to help our world return to normal, as well as the protection for my own [...]

By |2021-05-03T00:17:04-04:00May 2nd, 2021|ABMe Story Updates|Comments Off on Influencers

The Lost Year

It’s April... a year has gone by. An unprecedented, weird, scary, cautious year: four full seasons. A year ago international travel was closed to us (whether we travel or not, it feels restricting), we wear masks that hide our smiles, schools are online, we can’t eat out or go shopping without worrying, we don’t [...]

By |2021-04-04T20:54:40-04:00April 4th, 2021|ABMe Story Updates|Comments Off on The Lost Year
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